A Dead name' is the name that a transgender person was given at birth and no longer uses upon transitioning. So 'dead naming' is the act of calling a trans person by their birth name, which they no longer use. This is a form of hate speech and transphobia and can be detrimental to their mental health, so make sure you are mindful of how you address people.


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“You slow your speech down a little. You become a little more mindful about what you’re saying. How you’re saying it. You still mess up, I’ve messed up today twice. We’re human."


- Jamie Lee Curtis, on adjusting to a person who is transitioning or has transitioned

 

"Many trans people will go to great lengths to prevent people from finding out their deadnames, destroying irreplaceable photos and documents in an effort to ensure that who they really are is the only identity most will remember"


    — Sam Riedel, Transgender Movement Journalist